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Discussion Topic: i dont how to approach a moroccan girl?
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abdelilah |
04-09-2005 @ 1:00 AM
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can you lead me how to approach a Moroccan girl, they seems different than they others in this country.
for me they are hard to understand.
pls help me
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nora1 |
06-10-2005 @ 10:55 PM
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you don't know how to approch morrocan girl? common, if other men from an other country knows how to approach her, it's the shame to hear that from morrocan men, doen't know how. I guess aske these foreigners men?
thery may teach you something about your own women
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abdelilah |
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06-11-2005 @ 8:23 PM
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Thank you nora for the respond,
With respect to all Moroccan girls, and I want to mention about those who lives out of our country.
You got into my point Noura, it is not that I really don’t know how to approach Moroccan girls, I had been with many girls and I know how to treat them very well, but my question is a question of many Moroccan young men who lives out of morocco.
I know by experience many of those girls they don’t wait for the man to approach them but they make it easy for them and they take the initiative, especially if the man is Middle Eastern people, and they don’t mind if they are married or not.
I know many many many stories and I am not saying all ( bnat lablad like that but the majority are like that )
Moroccan man he is not cool enough to offer with her some wine or martini, on the dinner, also the Moroccan man he is old fashion because he cares about our values.
Other nationalities they don’t mind.
So do we have to change our value to give good impression? ( that’s my point)
Finally I can give a lesson to those strangers how to treat Moroccan girl in the right way, because I am Moroccan and they don’t know any better than Moroccan people.
Well Noura correct me if I am wrong
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obuntoe |
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06-12-2005 @ 5:28 PM
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Hello abdel, Attitude is important. For me a repectfull approach is important. I like to sea a repectfull attitude.
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nora1 |
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06-13-2005 @ 5:54 PM
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I'am moroccan woman, and to approch me, I think you just need to be yourself. you make it easy for both of us. about midle east men. they have something special I guess. offer wine or martini to someone you don't know, it doesn't make any sense.if you are in clubs, than it's different, people are different, and moroccan men doesn't know how to win morrocan women out of the country, why? I don't know the answer. I my self I wish I can find just hard working moroccan out of the country. I feel more confortable with foreigners than my own, why? I don't know again the answer. arab man in general if they meet you in clubs, they think this woman is bad, another men from other religion, doesn't even speak your language respect you more than your own, why? I don't know the answer.
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obuntoe |
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06-14-2005 @ 8:19 AM
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I agree with Nora1. My experience is that non moroccan men respect me.
Moroccan men don't. Even if you do not meet them at a club. Somehow they think you're easy to get. If they find out you're not, they get angry and start insulting. Moroccan men judge girls/women who do not dress in a non islamic way. That's why I keep away from Moroccan men. I am looking also looking for a nice, hard working man who doesn't judge me and is repectful.
Indeed be yourself.
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nora1 |
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06-14-2005 @ 12:23 PM
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when I talk about my self, I just give an example, doesn't mean what I want, but I talk about me becaue I'am morocan woman. for men who respect a cover women only, that's their life note mine, I don't nees to own respect from no one if I don't respect my self. if someone is going to marrie me bevause I'am covering than better not to. men in morocco think they know everything, and the problems of women not able to take care of them selves, so they thank getting married may be will get them out of their home at least. others even brought her husband to live with her familly,than start to have kids, don't get it, one of us must be mentally ill.
you own respect by working hard, and make good futur for your self, if there is one for you somewhere is going to show up, if not, you can take good care for your self,you don't need to wait for no one, it's time to weak up, moroccan women.
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obuntoe |
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06-14-2005 @ 5:29 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I am also a moroccan woman. I am also just an example. Like other woman we moroccan woman have our own personality. We are not all the same.
I do respect myself. I do not need a man's repect to respect myself. But if you ask me how to approach me, then a man's repect is important. Otherwise he can forget it.
I agree with you on the point about feeling comfortable with other foreigners and their respect. I refuse to dress in an Islamic way, just to get a moroccan man's respect. Better be myself and happy.
Like you and several other moroccan woman I take care of myself. I do not need a man to do it for me. Most of us moroccan woman grow up with the idea that marriage and having children is the ultemate goal in life. We (moroccan woman) are not prepared for real life.
A man own's respect by working hard and making a good future for himself. If a woman does the same, but remains unmarried, she is less respected. But then again who needs respect if one repects oneself.
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abdelilah |
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06-14-2005 @ 11:30 PM
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Thanks to all of you,
I think that Moroccan men never enforce the women to ware hijab I have 3 sisters who are very educated they achieved their goal without having men in their life ( I don’t know their privacy but at least they were not married, and they are now with happy family, and by the way they did not have to go out of the country) )
My parents teach them the good values and I am not talking about hijab here.
I want to say that ( bent nass will be always bent nass ) and we should not copy the other women from other nationalities other wise you don’t have your identity.
Well Moroccan girls hat you identity?
If you say that the Arabic men I mean Middle Eastern have something that Moroccan men doesn’t not have it. I believe that you were watching to many Arabic movies the Egyptian ones ( wallahi I know Moroccan girl smoke weed and she leave with this Egyptian man ) how am i respect that girl.
My question knows what the special things that other men have it. Well I am sure you have the answer.
I leave in the usa I know some Moroccans who are ( woulaad nass) and they are much richer than lot lot lot middle eastern. I know Moroccan who have their business that other men dreams of believe me on this
Moroccan men dressed million times better than any other Arabic men, they get jealous from us because we got very sexy women with us to parties and they don’t.
Well they get dispirit You know what they do, they look for Moroccan girls instead..
And I have last question have ever seeing middle eastern men with sexy American women, or any other nationality.
Those men they don’t know how to dress eat, and I just laugh at them when they try to impress a women.
Please tell me what exactly Moroccan man miss.
Believe me girls…. all Moroccan men respect Moroccan women.
Man is always man; women are always women we can not switch because this is the GOD creation
I do respect Moroccan girls at least because I am Moroccan
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nora1 |
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06-15-2005 @ 11:12 AM
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hello, to eveyone,
I asked my friends women, what moroccan men is missing. they told me,the men in morcocco are much better than those who are out of the country,of course not all,we can not generalize.but the majority of moroccan men out of the country doesn't know how to approach moroccan women. it's not the clothe abdelatif, or the way you look, or money. not all middle east men are not rich? most of my friends are married with syrians, palestinans, lebnan,only few with other rich country, and guess what they are happy, when you comme to my friends with morrocan men, most of them if not all are divorced. we are talking about really life here not just me and you.
about your sisters who live in morocco, and not married,with good situation, I'am glad to hear that, but is most of moroccan women like your sisters. of course not.we need to teah out girls from a young age that she need to be independant, study, work, any kind of work, nothing to be ashame when you make your own money by hard work, the reality is different.
I also like to answer thant moroccan men to appreach me , ne need to respect me, oh yes, I agree, even if he doesn't respect me I will make him too. because I have a big confident on my self, sometimes you meet with people desn't know what respect mean in relationships, but we have to be able to meet those people too.
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chamacco |
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07-11-2005 @ 7:20 AM
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With Western women, what you see is what you get. However, with Moroccan women the situation is entirely different... I think Moroccan women have many anomalies.. very complexed.. never give you an honnest opinion.. lie through their teeth  and the list is endless
The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear: Herbert Sebastien Agar
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abdelilah |
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07-12-2005 @ 12:35 PM
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salam all
what chamacco said is very important mark that makes moroccan men doesn t want to deal with moroccan girls. i want to mention about this incident, a moroccan girl that lied about her luanguage nationality ( what the perpus), and she start describing her body how she is sexy to someone he is not moroccan, ( tayhat be drrapo dyal lablad)
in general those middel easter men that nora said they have something special but she still doesn t know what is, they get the second hand moroccan girls, those girls they want to depand on that kind of people because they can t do much on their own 
i believe that moroccan girls desrespect them self more than any one else
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09-20-2007 @ 9:22 AM
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hey abdel!!i just logged in to let u know one more thing that u probably ignore.im a moroccan girl : 19 yrs old and i can say that i have enough information to tell you what happen exactly in morocco, or may be to convince you:)
as i understood, u leave abroad, which is completely different, as if u lived in morocco. i can imagine how u act how u think and even more how u treat people. but unfortunetly, it is not the case for moroccon men. You are all the same. Trust me. i have a lot of things to say but sometimes we do not find all the words. brief, first of all as i read too u said that ur sisters are benat nass i understood wut u meant such as they do not do anything bad : drinking...smoking...or even....(sleep). the only thing that i want to start with is that u were not with them and u can never know wut they do exactly and so on and so far. either they wear the veil or not its is the same. because nowadays the veil causes a big problem and makes moroccan girls in trouble. u can see that veilers are worst than the ones who do not put it. i personnally prefer to take it off rather than keep it and giving a bad image of the islam. we say that we are muslims. i say the opposite. we are not muslim anymore. arabs may be but not muslims. more than 70 percents of moroccan people do not pray, they lie, they steal everything they find and so on, if we are really muslims we have to practice, not only to talk a lot to say nothing. in the other hand, which concerns moroccan girls: in my point of view girl should respect her self first, then if she does, everyone will respect her. and for men, they are getting more and more confused. i understand, their job is to hang out with a girl with the idea to sleep with her and have fun for a period of time then to let her fall.before boys were going out with one for serious and the others for their pleasure. so if ever they sleep with girls, they treat them in a bad way, they react impudently ...
but now everything changed, for them there is no serious.. so they just have fun and everything is alright no prob... we can see that a man of 30 yrs old and he doesn't even have the idea to marry a women in his mind. here we can ask ourselves??? wut's going on?? he doesn not need to marry .. he found evrything prepared ...Y then ?? moroccan culture is deeply decreasing. it is too sad to see this sort of destraction happening to our native country. i can say that the major problem or its origin is girls because they gave up everything and they are not serious anymore, but if boys protect girls , im sure that we won't have this problem.let's take a concret example: weld nass and he goes out with bent nass. after a long time after kissing and everything, he makes her feel confortable and he wants a serious relationship then he tried his best to bring her to a house in order to sleep with her.... that is really a shame. especially when the man is older than the girl. the poor girl can not control herself... after if ever she lost her virginity... he lets her fall. and if one day, he wants to get marry, he has to take a new one. it is just an example that i gave u but just to try to make things clear, but the guy forgot that perhaps one day another man will do the same thing to one of her sisters...and if ever he heard that it is the case i know that she`ll die they will marginalize her... so y then???
so here we can talk about respect. we can realise that you guys do not respect girls. if it were the case u would not do this bullsh*t. im consious of all these things. no one will get me because i already know the rules of this bad game.it is reaally an intersting topic.keeep on growing......
Na
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malin |
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01-27-2008 @ 11:13 PM
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Hamdulilah for everything that is going on in this forum. I mean I personally like it very much even if we get united just to insult each other. How beautiful is that.
As I can see the post is about 3 years old but it's all good in one way cause at least I will have to write some English down.
first of all I love my country very much and my country's girls too, ohhh yes, we do have beautiful girls and women which I due a lot of respect even if she doesn’t respect herself and talking about respect, my point of view is that it's not because a girl is doing something we might say wrong that makes her bad. per example you see a Moroccan or any girl with a stranger which is not Moroccan and you start listing in your mind all the insults you have to say but all this is it just jealousy towards your country or cause she’s not with you and you are not the one playing the game. If you might call it.
passing to middle eastern guys; I do see the magic going on with their sweet words that even if you are a guy will make you melt on the floor and as we all know back home our ladies are already loaded through the media in general so they just need to practice here in land of opportunity they find their guinea-pigs. so for middle eastern guys it’s easy for them he just have to create an fantasy world and we Moroccan guys those stuff don't work with us maybe cause we like to imply being a men in an old fashion way which in my believe never worked , and if you have to say to a Moroccan girl bahibik or habibti believe me next call will be 911 cause you might get paralyzed somewhere. I once have a conversation with a lady that I do respect a lot about if her husband was Moroccan? and with cold blood she told me which was funny (I don’t want to hear yen3al waldine bouk el kalb), it made me laugh somehow to hear it but in some cases it's true, but again it might be just an image that she got from her environment and we can't blame her on making her decision. Anyway it's her life and I personally still have respect for any Moroccan lady out there.
Yes there is benat ennass and there is welad ennass just everyone makes of himself one but is it to us to judge people? Of course not, cause once said (the hardest thing that a man can do is judging himself), and yet how many prostitutes made it good in life better than the ones with scarves and it is not an insult (hacha lilah), and how many bad guys became good people after all.
As I always say respect yourself and be proud of yourself and most of it be realistic cause the way you are going to talk about other you do have sisters and brothers so think twice and as long as it’s not about me take it how you want it.
And don’t you ever say I am smart enough or I am into the game cause they say “elli kay yet3ana bi el kouwa kaymout bi edou3f” so cool down everybody and yet I am pleased to post my opinion in this forum with all due respect to my brothers and sisters.
Mohamed(sebssi@gmail.com).
Proud To Be Moroccan
This message was edited by malin on 1-28-08 @ 10:38 AM
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12-03-2008 @ 2:48 PM
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Hi Moroccans,
After i read all ur posts, i feel little upset how we talk about each other.
I'm a proud moroccan woman, 21 years old, i live in US i'm married to a moroccan guy. let me tell you girls they is no man better than moroccans (walakin may3jbkomch rasskom a rjal ), the only issue you can face with moroccan men is they don't make you feel important, they don't give u that much attention , and they don't tell u good words. I always complaint to my husband about this u know what he says "u beleive a lot in movies", i get angry of course because i feel that i need him to take care more of me, but u know i'm confident that i will change him, i will do my best so he can tell whatever i want. I know it's not easy but we get to do it for the future of our children, and our country as well. if we don't correct them or teach them how to make us feel good being with them who will??? I was one of those girls who thaught that being with a western is better than going out with moroccan. but when u think af ur children u don't want them to be like these american (with my respect to them) u want them to be Typically moroccans. believe ur children will get lost, they won't know their real culture... after we should not be selfish look how our parents suffered for us, so why don't we do the same thing for our children.
I love my husband, he is not perfect either but in a relation u have to compromise, if u want him to treat u good, do it for him so he can understand what u r talking about, they are "old school" so they still don't understand the true meaning of "rojoula".
Regarding the respect, we think that they don't respect us but deep down they do.
With all my respect and love to u all men and women.
Na
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